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Do you really need proof of a competing offer?
I spent way too much time on the internet yesterday and came across Jay Thompson’s blog post answering a Trulia Question on PhoenixRealEstateGuy.com. The same questions certainly provoked my thoughts and I felt compelled to write a slightly more elaborate answer response.I spent way too much time on the internet yesterday and came across Jay Thompson’s blog post answering a Trulia Question on PhoenixRealEstateGuy.com. The same questions certainly provoked my thoughts and I felt compelled to write a slightlymore elaborate answer response.
The question was:
I had an offer of $205,000 that was being considered by the bank on a property listed for $225000. Suddenly, at the last moment, the listing agent told my agent that there was another offer of $220000 that the bank was considering. We matched that price and got the property. But now I am wondering what proof is there that this offer really existed and that the listing agent was just not jacking the price up.
I just could have left it with a very short answer of: No there is NO proof and NO, you’ll never find out if the listing agent was just jacking up the purchase price!
Blaaahhh how boring! – at least, that is what came to my mind at first – but, as I was thinking a little bit more about this question (and reading some of the answers) I asked myself why Gregory S had asked the question on Trulia in the first place? Perhaps, it was because the conclusion is that his buyer’s agent did not do a good job educating him about the market and current values, or was George not really ready to buy a home – or just simply naive? Think about it – If you made an offer and everything seems to be groovy and at the last minute you get presented with the idea that the acceptance of your offer is in jeopardy because somebody is willing to offer more, you would probably raise an eyebrow? Wouldn’t you? I am not a poker player (I am left handed and cannot hold playing cards for the life of me and I barely understand how to play Farkle) but, wouldn’t you agree that if somebody raised your bet then wouldn’t you start thinking about whether you can afford to call their bluff, or to fold? Please, don’t tell me that you depend on the fiduciary duty of your agent to understand that concept.
Also, George’s questions did not reveal whether his purchase was cash or if he got a mortgage for the home, but in case you haven’t noticed, the appraisers, lately, seem to be on the ultra-conservative side… so if you financed your home recently, the likelihood of overpaying for it is slim to none – unless you put a silly amount of cash down.

photo credit: QteaThe price one ultimately should pay for a home, or anything else for that matter, is what one is willing to pay for. That is why you don’t need the proof of a competing offer!
Assuming the buyer’s agent did his research and shared the fact-findings with the client then there should have been a clear expectation of market value. Everybody’s definition of a “good deal” is different”, however the property in question must have had “some” value to George because he was worried about loosing it to another buyer.
So, when you go out buying a property you should have set your priorities straight. Do you want to go after the deal of a century and “steal” a property; or are you looking for a home which fits your needs, wants, desires and budget at market price? George, I am sorry but, as the saying goes, you cannot have the cake and eat it, too.
I know the importance of getting a “good deal” and I, myself want an even “better deal” and really, who want’s a bad deal? – Trust me, I understand the concept, but what disconcerts me the most about this Trulia-Question is that most people automatically conclude or imply that unethical behavior of REALTORS® was a factor. How can we possibly know and why do we draw conclusions? Did the listing agent intentionally scare the buyer of loosing an opportunity by fabricating a “phantom offer” in order to make a commission? Was the listing agent not a good negotiator and fell for the bluff of the listing agent? Did the listing agent and buyers agent conspire to get a deal done? Yes, Yes and Yes that all could very well be. No doubt there are some bad REALTORS® out there who would do anything for a commission.
Yes, the possibility is always there, but let’s not forget about the consumers too!! I cannot tell you how many times in my career I had to talk family, friends and customers out of buying something because they “had to have” something and stopped thinking rationally.
Just act like my five year old – ASK QUESTIONS!
“Do I really need this? Do I really want this? Can I afford this? Am I paying the same everybody else is? Is it too good to be true?” Ultimately it is YOUR signature on the bottom line… and I hope your agent is not holding a gun to your head when you are signing.
It is human nature to second guess your decisions shortly after you made one; especially after a big decision like buying a home, but, if you can answer all the above mentioned questions with yes – then you probably got a good deal.